Reflections and news from our Pastor and Youth Minister

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Dear Friends in Christ:

This past week, the State of Connecticut announced some more changes to the COVID restrictions. One of those changes involves us! The Governor announced that he is easing up on the number of people that can be gathered in a House of Worship. His plan allows for 50% capacity provided the proper social distancing can be maintained.

With that said, and after consultation with the leaders of our Parish Pastoral Council, I have decided that we will open up our Masses to 200 people right now. I know this is not 50% capacity, but in reality we cannot permit that number of people and still ensure proper social distancing. What we will do is as follows. We will open all Masses to 200 people beginning THIS WEEKEND and see how that works out for a couple of weeks. Then we will meet again and discuss whether it is possible to increase that number and still provide a safe environment for all who come to worship with our family of faith. I want more people to be together but we have to do this strategically and prudently maintaining the safety of our parishioners.

This is exciting news! And as I have said all the time since the beginning of this pandemic, IT IS COVID. And we know, with COVID-19 things are constantly changing, and we will continue to adjust based on the guidelines issued from the State and from the Archdiocese.

Therefore, we will reconfigure the pews to accommodate this change! In the beginning of reopening we permitted extra space between the rows, certainly more than the required amount, as a means of being overly cautious and safe. Now with this change, we are going to open every other pew, which still permits proper social distancing.

I am SO grateful to Lynn Krieg and Jim Mitchell, Co-Chairs of our Parish Pastoral Council, for all that they have been doing and continue to do to assist us in this process of reopening! As you can imagine with everything constantly in flux, having two people there to assist in making the necessary decisions really has been a true blessing. Their input and counsel have been a source of great inspiration to me! I know I speak for us all in saying thank you to them for their daily efforts to ensure a safe environment for all. Daily they are monitoring the sign-ups for Mass, removing duplicates, emailing or printing lists, coordinating volunteers, as well as dealing with all my text, emails, and calls. They are truly remarkable and patient! Thank you both!

We ask all who attend Mass here at Saint Bridget of Sweden Parish either weekday or weekend to continue to make a reservation online! BUT THERE IS ONE CHANGE! We are moving away from using SignUp Genius and moving to a new software that is more user friendly and designed for churches! We are beginning to use software from Parish Solutions. It will still be found on our website at You will still visit the website to sign up or call the parish office to have one of our staff members assist you in signing up in advance. Parish Solutions describes their software as follows:

Now you can allow parishioners to make reservations for limited seating events. Built specifically for Catholic Churches handling reduced capacity events for social distancing purposes, our Mass Reservation System is the solution for which you have been looking. Mobile friendly, email confirmations, printable lists, and super simple interface make our Reservation System the perfect solution.

Our staff has looked into other software and sign up solutions but it seems this is the best one! There is no commitment, so if we find after some time that it is not as user-friendly as they claim, then we will look into other options again. Stay tuned…IT IS COVID.

Please remember we are still only using the front door or south door entrances only, someone will continue to greet you and check you in, and while in church PLEASE REMEMBER masks must be worn!

We continue to ask that there be no congregational singing. Also when approaching for communion keep masks on, approach single file via the center aisle, remain six feet distant in the communion line from those not in your household as marked by tape in the aisle, and receive communion in the hand. Step to the side to lower one’s mask to consume the host, then reposition the mask and return to one’s seat via the side aisle.

Also, just by way of reminder when receiving the host in the hand, please place one hand on top of the other, keeping the palm fully open, and waiting for the priest or extraordinary minister of Holy Communion to place the host in your hand before moving. Please do not cup your hand, try to take the host between your fingers from the minister, or move quickly. We have to do our part to avoid contact with the communion minister. Following these procedures ensures the safety of all involved.

Donations for the collections may be put in the corresponding offering baskets on the communion rail (they are covered with a red cloth) or by using our online giving portal, available on the parish website at

Again, I personally thank you all for your flexibility and patience as we navigate these uncharted waters of the pandemic. Let us continue to pray for all those affected by COVID, and those working diligently for treatments, vaccines, and other remedies-physical, financial and emotional-that one day soon we can return to our regular worship practices and daily routines. Finally, if you or someone you know is in need of any assistance during this time, please contact me to let me know so that we may reach out to them with whatever help we may be able to provide. May God continue to bless us all!

LENT 2021:

The Pastoral Staff really felt like there is a longing in all of our hearts as we deal with this pandemic that is a call for more! But we also recognize that we are made for more! We are made for more than isolation. We are made for more than being fearful to go out in public. We are made for more than sitting in our lazy boy chair watching Mass on some device. We are made for relationship! And in Lent we are called to turn to Christ. We are called to the spiritual disciplines of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving as a means to a deepening awareness of our need for Christ in our lives. More to come but for now I invite you to start thinking about this question in your time of prayer. want more? I do! Do you?

ASH WEDNESDAY will be a little different this year! We will begin Lent with Ash Wednesday (February 17th) and we will have Masses with the Distribution of Ashes at 7AM, 9AM, and 5:30PM.

We will also have the distribution of ashes from 11AM until 1PM, and 4PM until 5:15PM in Saint Bridget Church. Last year we offered this opportunity and it was very well received! You are invited to come during these hours, say a few prayers in quiet, then approach to have ashes administered to you.

Please note that we will be distributing ashes using Q-tips cotton swabs in order to avoid any contact and make this as safe as possible during this time of pandemic. A new Q-tips swab will be used for each person, discarded, and buried in sacred ground in the following days.

Don’t forget that this year, during Lent, we will, once again. As a parish family focus on the Corporal Works of Mercy in a special way. It will be an opportunity for us as a family of faith to reach out to others with the mercy and love of God and to fulfill the call of Pope Francis to be instruments of mercy in the lives of others. IT’s COVID so things will be a little different. It is our hope that each weekend our parishioners will bring the items and leave them at the entrances to make it easier for our volunteers to collect them after all the Masses. We will not bring them to the altar this year.

Weekend of February 20 & 21—Feed the Hungry

· non-perishable food items for the Cheshire Community Food Pantry

Weekend of February 27 & 28—Give drink to the Thirsty

· beverages (water, juice, coffee, etc.) for the Cheshire Community Food Pantry

Weekend of March 6 & 7—Clothe the naked

· new (WHITE) socks for the Saint Vincent DePaul Shelter in Waterbury

· or onesies for use at Carolyn’s Place

Weekend of March 13 & 14—Shelter the Homeless

· a monetary collection for the Saint Vincent DePaul Shelter in Waterbury

Weekend of March 20 & 21—Visit the Sick

· make Easter cards to be given to those in skilled nursing facilities or our homebound parishioners

Weekend of March 27 & 28—Palm SundayVisit the imprisoned

· Father Villa who works with the prisoners in the Cheshire Prison asked for us to purchase a book by Francis Xavier Nguyen Van Thuan called The Road of Hope. He was a Cardinal in the Church who was imprisoned in Vietnam for thirteen years and instead of giving in to despair and self-pity, he found God in the darkness and that his life had purpose. It is a story of hope for those Father Villa serves. The book is $24 so we will have a special basket to collect funds in order to purchase some of these books for his ministry.

Weekend of April 3 & 4—Easter SundayBury the Dead

· as we celebrate the Resurrection of Jesus, we remember our loved ones who have gone before us in faith. May they share in His Resurrection!

More to come on Lent…but ask yourself: want more?

As always, please remember to pray for our parish family and ask God’s blessings as we build His kingdom here. Please know that I am praying for you, and I ask for your prayers for me, that together through the intercession of Saint Bridget of Sweden, our Patroness, and Blessed Father Michael J. McGivney, and united in the Eucharist, we will reflect the presence of Jesus to the world. Have a blessed week and stay safe!!!


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Dear Friends in Christ:

Catholic Schools Week…as I wrote about last week, today we begin Catholic Schools Week throughout the Archdiocese and, in fact, throughout the country.

WE INVITE YOU to our first-ever Virtual Open House this SUNDAY, 1/31/2021. As with all things in this year of pandemic, we are reaching out using the media tools at our fingertips to, once again, share the amazing treasures we have here at the parish. One such treasure is our phenomenal parish school.

Come on this virtual tour of our school and see what makes St. Bridget School so special. This is a great opportunity for parents, grandparents, and extended family members to “visit” our parish school and see all that we offer in a safe and nurturing environment.

We are very excited to be offering this virtual open house!!! We are working with a Story Real Studios in New Haven to produce an impactful, concise, and informative virtual open house! Of course, an in-person tour is available for anyone who wishes to come and see in-person what our school campus looks like, what the curriculum offers our students, and see firsthand our phenomenal faculty at work.

I want every family to feel that St. Bridget School is an option for you! We educate students from PreK3 to Grade 8. Join us at your leisure today and learn firsthand from our faculty, staff, and current students why you should consider St. Bridget School for your child(ren).

We are blessed with our school building which already was up-to-date thanks to the great people of Saint Bridget of Sweden Parish. We were blessed over the summer too with great generosity from the people of our parish family. Thank you! This generosity enabled us to increase the bandwidth in our school building, purchase additional sanitizing and disinfecting chemicals, make some necessary adjustments to our HVAC system to ensure an increase amount of air comes in from the outside at various points in the day, and purchase PPE and other necessary safety gear for our faculty and staff.

Even though up-to-date technology is important, even though a great curriculum is important, what really makes St. Bridget School standout is our faculty. Our faculty not only presents the necessary material to their students, but they challenge our students to try their best, and to achieve their God-given potential. They monitor the social and emotional growth of our students in the course of the day. They educate the whole child: academically, socially, and spiritually. Each of our students comes to school knowing they are loved, treasured, and cared for. They are given the room they need to be who God is calling them to be!

Academically we are charged with exceeding national standards and so continue to implement curriculum that provides a challenging course, grounded in basic abilities necessary for students to develop foundational skills that lead to higher, more complex thinking skills, rooted in Gospel values, and integrating Catholic social teaching across all disciplines, ensuring the development of the whole child. Students graduating from St. Bridget School exceed state and national benchmarks, evidenced by our exemplary standardized test scores and high performance on high school placement exams. Our students enter to learn, and leave to serve the parish and community throughout their lives.

I hope you will join us for this exciting Virtual Open House! I want every family in our parish, with children of school age children, to feel that St. Bridget School is an option for them. Please come and see what St. Bridget School could offer your child or children.

The Parish Pastoral Staff is busy now that we are in Ordinary Time. The one thing Ordinary Time does for us is to provide the chance to catch up on projects and day-to-day life before Lent begins!

Yes I said it, Lent is not too far away and we are already making plans for our parish journey of Lent. Lent begins two weeks from this Wednesday! We will begin Lent with Ash Wednesday and we will have Masses with the Distribution of Ashes at 7AM, 9AM, and 5:30PM. We will also have the distribution of ashes from 11AM until 1PM, and 4PM until 5:15PM in Saint Bridget Church. You are invited to come during this time, say a few prayers in quiet, then approach to have ashes administered to you. Please note that we will be distributing ashes using Q-tips cotton swabs in order to avoid any contact and make this as safe as possible during this time of pandemic. A new Q-tips swab will be used for each person, discarded, and buried in sacred ground in the following days.

I have said it before, but I say it again, we want to hear from you! Is there a particular ministry you would like the Pastoral Staff to work toward forming? Is there a particular devotion you would like to see us offer? Is there a particular topic you would like covered in an evening Adult Education Talk? We are working on some exciting programs and events, both in-person and virtual, to help make this Lent meaningful for us all. But if you have an idea, please let us know. Write it out and email it to or drop it in an envelope marked Pastoral Staff in the collection on the weekend. All ideas are possible for consideration.

THIS TIME OF YEAR IS USUALLY THE SCHOOL AUCTION…The St. Bridget School Home and School Association is normally gearing up for the annual Auction, which, of course, is the major fundraiser of the year. However, as you can imagine with COVID 19 it is not possible to have a large gathering. Therefore, they have many fun events planned which we can ALL participate in safely from our homes in the coming months.

The first one announced is the BINGO WITH A KICK—THIS THURSDAY, February 4th at 7PM via ZOOM. Won’t you join us for an evening of fun from the comfort of your home? It’s not too late!

Here is how it works…You purchase bingo cards electronically to play bingo:

1. Single Card for all 6 games= $20

2. 3-Pack of Cards for all 6 games=$35

3. 6-Pack of Cards for all 6 games=$50

Each game the winner will have a choice between a Designer Hand Bag from brands like Michael Kors, Coach, Kate Spade, and Dooney & Bourke or choose a $100 Gift Card from national chains like Amazon.

The item not chosen will then be put into a KICK RAFFLE. You can participate in all 6 Kick Raffles by purchasing a Kick Raffle Ticket for $10. One purchase gets you in all the raffles, or you can purchase more to increase your chances of winning.

This will no doubt be a fun evening that people of all ages can participate in and at the same time be supporting our parish school. I hope you will join us! You can order online at and click on Bingo with a Kick. Click to sign-up online. You will need to pay electronically and be able to receive your bingo cards by email as well.

There are many more exciting events being planned in the coming months that will be fun for parishioners of all ages, stay tuned! I really hope you will support these efforts to help the school in these difficult times. We will have a Cow Chip Raffle, a Prize a Day Raffle, a Virtual Auction Experience, and a super surprise fundraiser that really will be exciting, stay tuned…

As always, please remember to pray for our parish family and ask God’s blessings as we build His kingdom here. Please know that I am praying for you, and I ask for your prayers for me, that together through the intercession of Saint Bridget of Sweden, our Patroness, and Blessed Father Michael J. McGivney, and united in the Eucharist, we will reflect the presence of Jesus to the world. Have a blessed week and stay safe!!!

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Recognize that title? It's a popular slogan in Android ads, a not-so-subtle dig at Apple iPhones and their lack of customization and modification. While I'm an Apple guy for the most part, I love the sentiment of the ad. What does "together, not the same" mean? Why should we care? How is it relevant to us?

For those who aren't tech-savvy, the slogan references the differences between Android phones (essentially any smartphone that's not an iPhone) and iPhones. Whereas iPhones all use one operating system (iOS) with very little room for modification, Android phones use a variety of different operating systems with lots of modification options.

Android phones are "together" in their not-Apple-ness, but they're not the same. They can utilize a variety of different operating systems, programs, physical makeups, etc., but they're still united under the Android banner. Their differences do not divide them. In fact, their differences are the very things that unite them.

Now I'll admit, I'm an iPhone guy myself. But I do love the "together, not the same" marketing campaign. Not only is it instantly recognizable and memorable, as all good marketing campaigns are, but the sentiment it holds is applicable to life as a whole. Perhaps now, more than ever, we should take a cue from Android.

I've written some blog posts about the divisiveness of current American culture before, and I'd venture to say we've all experienced it in some way by now. Just open up Twitter, and you'll see a variety of people shouting about two diametrically opposed points of view equally loudly. It's exhausting!

This has never been a politically motivated blog, nor will it ever be. This is a Catholic blog that espouses Catholic values. Values like universality, the dignity of each person, and compassion. These values are good for all to practice, but they're our sworn duty as Catholics.

One of the most unfortunate bits of disunity I've seen over the past few years is the "I disagree with you, so I shouldn't have to hear you" fallacy. As painful or frustrating as it may be to hear, we all have the right to express our opinions. Trying to strip others of that right by silencing, belittling, or insulting them is not the way of Christ.

Last week, we inaugurated a new President. In President Biden's Inaugural Address, he said the following: "Let us listen to one another. Hear one another. See one another. Show respect to one another. Politics need not be a raging fire destroying everything in its path. Every disagreement doesn't have to be a cause for total war."

However you feel about President Biden, President Trump, or any other politician, these are words worth heeding. We should listen to each other. We should respect one another. And it is absolutely correct to say that every disagreement need not cause a violent conflict, verbal or otherwise.

There was a Facebook post that made the rounds in the days following the November election that I think is worth revisiting. It began, "And they'll know we are Christians by our," followed by a number of things that had been crossed out. Some of the crossed out terms may sound a bit familiar.

The crossed out terms were "Political Put Downs, Insulting Memes, Spiteful Name Calling, and Divisive Satire." None of those are what Christ asks of us. Of course, the word that came after the crossed out terms was Love. "And they'll know we are Christians by our love."

That phrase comes from a hymn that we've all heard sung at Mass before. Love is what identifies us as followers of Christ, what brings us together. Not any of those other crossed out terms. The temperature in our political culture is really high right now, and it sometimes feels like there's no room for disagreement. We can fix that!

Just like in that Android slogan from the beginning of this piece, Christians are called to be "Together, not the same." Love, the Lord, and the Holy Spirit are what bring us together. What makes us not the same? Literally everything else! Humanity is an incredibly diverse and varied species.

If someone thinks differently than you, has a different political opinion than you, or chose to vote for someone you didn't vote for, that's okay. Matter of fact, that's good. We should disagree, debate, and discuss with each other. That's what it is to be human. That's what it is to be together, not the same.

Let's remember to listen to each other and treat each other with respect as we move forward in this new year together. It's what Christ would do, and that's what should matter to each and every one of us. I pray that you will embrace and uplift the unique characteristics and opinions of both yourself and others.

May God bless you,


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